You can't actually use the process (feeling love) to get anything.  You just have to feel love.  Love will bring all the good to you.  You can't feel love and focus on something you want and expect it to bring it to you.  It may but, love also says no for your benefit,  So that you are on the right path to learn what you need to learn to fulfill your destiny. What love will do is guide you to the best place for you, giving everything you ever wanted whether or not you genuinely  knew you wanted it.
Make your decisions from a place of love! 

Wisdom from Billy Phillips-Kabbalahist
The biggest conflict on earth is not between religions, between nations or between enemies of any kind. The greatest of all conflicts exists between our ego and the truth. So next time someone says something about your character that causes you pain, stop and consider that maybe, just maybe, it might be true.

 The absolute best time to be silent is when you have a burning need to answer that person back. The perfect time to answer back is when you're scared into utter silence.

"Abra cadabra" is an Aramaic/kabbalistic word meaning "as i speak i create" indicating the power of the spoken word. Share praise and compliments and good wishes with everyone you meet over the next few days. With each kind word we share, we bring into existence a packet of positive energy (code name: angel) that brings positive influences into our life. With each negative word uttered and each judgmental statement spoken, we arouse a packet of negative energy that tips the balance of our lives towards the negative.

2. Arabs aren't dying. Israelis aren't dying. Christians aren't dying. Filipinos aren't dying. Syrians aren't dying. It is human beings who are dying. When we realize we are all God's children -- different, the same way the organs of the body are different with different functions -- then the one body of humanity, in all of its diversity, will unite and stop dying.

Hate has no power, except for the power we believe it has. Hate cannot exist in the presence of true love. Hate only exists when there is a lack of love within someone. Love is immortal. When we love forever, we will live forever. We only age and die because of the lack of love that we share with others. It is ego that prevents us from loving forever, and thus living forever. Kabbalists work at removing all self-interest and ego so that they can achieve immortal life in this world.

3. We are not here to transform our ego. We are not here to be kind and loving people. We're here to attain immortality & endless joy. Transforming our ego and becoming kind and loving people is HOW we get there. Forget morals and ethics and noble ideals. True transformation is all about creating a win-win paradise for everyone. Especially ourselves! That's the paradox behind unconditional love for others.

4. We can only share what we have! So we can't change the world until we change ourselves. People who are busy changing the world are merely fueled by inverted ego. Activism is egoism—unless that activism is directed inward at our own negative traits.

Most times—not all the time—but most of the time, we are not looking for the truth. We think we are, but we are not. We are looking for facts and evidence to support what we already believe or desperately want to believe. The quest for truth is the most difficult path in life. The ability to embrace the truth once we find it requires almost super-human courage and will. If you know ahead of time that truth will shake you to the bone, you will draw the courage from the Light hear the truth so that you be able to live the truth.

The Torah and the Bibles of many religions often instruct us to kill our enemies including men, women, children. Biblical scripture, by design, is a code. The enemy is our own ego. Period. The enemy is our doubts about the existence of the Opponent and enemy that lives within us

Feeling love.  You can just feel love and that's great!  You can also use your chakras and love.  I use my Root Chakra and feel love being created.  I feel it moving through my body and out.  the root Chakra is the creative source.  You create love and feel it moving through your body.  It is a very powerful feeling.  Feeling that feeling of love in that area is much better than obsessing about sex.

You don't have to feel love for someone as a matter of fact it's probably best if you don't.
Just feel love. If nothing else,  just doing that will change your life for the better dramatically.  When you feel love you raise your vibration to the level of Love.  The level of all healing, the level of all good.  So if you want healing, if you want good in your life feel love.Feeling love you can feel a connection between you and the other.  If you feel love for someone or something it creates attachment.   Attachment isn't bad until you have to detach  then that might involve pain.  Having a connection is, I believe, much better because when you disconnect it's not as painful.

Love is...The Presence Within.  It is difficult at times to keep that connection.  There are so many distractions in our lives.  Our day to day distractions of dealing with each other. Complicated distractions such as illness, or job concerns.  It is a moment to moment thing.  We must remind ourselves to feel love.  Moment to moment.  To allow that power to take over our being.

As things happen from within you must go within to get your answers. I have health issues so I go within to that place (in this case it's a Doctor's office) and I talk to the Dr. or Dr.s there.   they tell me I must go to the place that is ailing and speak with it.  Ask it's forgiveness.  Ask it what I must do to improve that area of ill health.  I get many impressions of eating the right "color" of food for that area.  i.e. red food for the heart. Yellow food for the spleen and Pancreases and so on.
Going within is the most powerful thing I find that I can do to correct the outside issues.