surrender to Love and it's purpose for you.  Allow love to place you where you need to be to be the most effective.

Think of how powerful surrender is.  Think about when the Japanese surrendered to the US in World War II.  Look how powerful they have become. 


When you feel love just feel love you can feel a connection to  you can feel a connection to things and people.  When you feel love for something or someone you become attached and when that love is no longer there you feel heartache. Attachment is like a cord connecting you to the other person when the cord is broken there is a feeling of loss.  When you just feel connected it means you are on the same wavelength as the other.  When the connection is not there it's not there but, there is no sense of loss.

You can still retain the essence of the connection but not be attached to the thing you are connected to.  This will also resolve a lot of co-dependent attitudes.